A few years ago, I organised a party for my Mum’s 70th birthday. She is the youngest of eleven children. Therefore it became a mini family reunion. We were catching up with some cousins for the first time since the 1980s! So, I wanted it to be more than just another family barbecue.
Also, it was only a few years since the death of my oldest sister. Because of that, I wanted to make this special for Mum. I saw it as an opportunity to say thank you for our unique, adventurous childhood. A way to celebrate her years on this earth and acknowledge everything she had achieved.
So, my siblings and I poured an enormous amount of time, energy and effort into creating something memorable. Our way of saying thank you for all the birthdays and events she had made special for us. So we planned to give a memento to all the guests as a unique reminder of their adventures with Mum. And their contribution to the celebration of her seventy years.
I had plans. Great ideas. For the decorations, the food, and the fun family activities where we would all laugh in a casual, relaxed manner. Like one of those happy, well-balanced families that you see on TV. Much as I would love to tell you that story, it’s not mine. That is because my story involves being crazy with stress. Not showering or sleeping for days. And thinking so much about the sandwiches that I forgot to take the guest gift bags.
As a result, I ended up surrounded by many mementos of my mother’s seventy years. While I quietly crossed event planning off my potential career list, I started thinking about alternative gifts. I needed an idea that wouldn’t require me to sell a kidney on the black market, just to afford the postage.
First of all, it had to be easy to create. Also, budget-friendly to produce and post. Furthermore, it should be something that could be unique for each guest. Something relevant to each person’s relationship with my mother. Sounds impossible, right?
Things I love. Books, and making things from pieces of paper. Documenting the past and present for future generations. The eureka moment should have been the most noteworthy event. But I think I was doing the dishes when I put it all together. A bookmark. My mini family reunion gift should have been a bookmark. Hindsight, always such a smartie.
Do people still use bookmarks? Does it even matter? Because people collect things, they never use. Such as coins, stamps, and postcards. My grandmother also had a teaspoon collection while not one of those ever stirred a cup of tea. We all have little mementos of events or trips that we keep to remind us of a person or an event.
Why bookmarks? They are easy to make. Budget-friendly. Simple or fancy. Such versatility! Single-sided. Two-sided. With a photo, or two. Add a simple family tree, a story or a quote. It’s a unique one-of-a-kind gift.
Are you looking for a budget-friendly family reunion gift? Have you considered a bookmark? Since they are so easy to make, then you can create a few options without blowing your budget.
Do you need ideas to get started? Consider these ideas to help your family celebrate:
Need more ideas? Then try Google, Pinterest (or your favourite search engine). Type in family reunion bookmarks then hit go and check out the images for inspiration. While those designs belong to someone, you can still use them to inspire your own creativity.
Excited about the idea but not sure about the next steps? The good news is that you have a few options!
Depending on the quantity that you need there are a few options here as well.
Make sure that you get a quote before outsourcing the printing.
Since I love bookmarks so much, I have released four bookmark templates.
All templates are available in either A4 or US Letter. The download includes everything you will need to make your own bookmarks for personal use or as a family reunion gift.
While you are here, take a look at my all-in-one genealogy worksheet free download.
Whether you use my template or create your own, I’d love to see your family reunion bookmarks. Upload a pic on Facebook, or send to firstname.lastname@example.org.